need an option to control whether enable or disable project reference

[hardfist]

          we need an option to control whether enable or disable project reference, so I suggest following options

module.exports = {
resolve: {
  tsconfig: {
    configFile: './tsconfig.json',
    references: ['./a/tsconfig.json', './b.tsconfig.json'] | 'auto' | undefined 
    // undefined or no value means don't enable project reference
    // 'auto' means enable auto project reference
    // ['./a/tsconfig.json','./b/tsconfig.json'] means manual config project reference
 }
}
}

and current tsConfigPath is just syntax sugar

{
  resolve: { 
   tsConfigPath: './tsconfig.json'
 }
}

is syntax sugar of the following and will be deprecated in the future

{
 resolve: { 
   tsconfig:{
     configFile: './tsconfig'
    }
}
}

Originally posted by @hardfist in #4192 (comment)

[hardfist]

I think this is the main blocker for modernjs to implement sourceBuild mode on rspack, @chenjiahan may add more context about it， cc @Boshen

[chenjiahan]

Modern.js provides a source code build mode, it allows developers to directly reference the source code of other sub-projects within the monorepo for development.

When using webpack, Modern.js uses the references option of tsconfig-paths-webpack-plugin to support TypeScript project references, so that the use of aliases in the sub-project works correctly.

And when using Rspack, we want to take the same behavior, so it would be nice if Rspack can provide an option to control the references.