[3/N][torch.compile] consolidate custom op logging

[youkaichao]

previously the custom op logging is too verbose.

after #10383 , we now have global control and aggregation of the custom op statistics.

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[youkaichao]

the logging looks better now:

DEBUG 11-16 18:23:29 init.py:95] enabled custom ops: Counter({'rms_norm': 65, 'silu_and_mul': 32, 'rotary_embedding': 1})
DEBUG 11-16 18:23:29 init.py:97] disabled custom ops: Counter()

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