Implement etcd lifecycle management for vineyardd #1340

Job	Run time
ci (release)	12m 54s
ci (unit-tests)	17m 53s
ci (e2e-tests-airflow-integration)	16m 33s
ci (e2e-tests-assembly-local)	46m 40s
ci (e2e-tests-assembly-distributed)	46m 2s
ci (e2e-tests-autogenerated-helm-chart)	38m 31s
ci (e2e-tests-failover)	18m 23s
ci (e2e-tests-repartition-dask)	21m 4s
ci (e2e-tests-schedule-workflow)	17m 13s
ci (e2e-tests-schedule-workflow-without-crd)	15m 9s
ci (e2e-tests-schedule-workload)	17m 17s
ci (e2e-tests-serialize)	18m 4s
ci (e2e-tests-sidecar)	15m 37s
ci (e2e-tests-spill)	17m 41s
ci (e2e-tests-workflow)	17m 20s
ci (e2e-tests-mars-examples)	12m 59s
ci (e2e-tests-vineyardctl)	17m 11s
ci (e2e-tests-deploy-raw-backup-and-recover)	18m 46s
ci (e2e-tests-three-etcd-nodes-failover)	1h 14m 44s
ci (e2e-tests-five-etcd-nodes-failover)	1h 16m 53s
	8h 56m 54s

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