Update RecursiveArrayTools.jl compatibility to version 3 #10931

Job	Run time
tree_part1 - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 40s
tree_part2 - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 40s
tree_part3 - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 41s
tree_part4 - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 41s
tree_part5 - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 41s
tree_part6 - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 41s
structured - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 42s
p4est_part1 - ubuntu-latest - x64	3m 50s
p4est_part2 - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 40s
t8code_part1 - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 42s
t8code_part2 - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 40s
unstructured_dgmulti - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 40s
parabolic - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 43s
paper_self_gravitating_gas_dynamics - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 42s
misc_part1 - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 40s
misc_part2 - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 43s
performance_specializations_part1 - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 43s
performance_specializations_part2 - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 41s
mpi - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 40s
threaded - ubuntu-latest - x64	4m 41s
threaded_legacy - ubuntu-latest - x64	17s
threaded_legacy - ubuntu-latest - x64	18s
mpi - macos-13 - x64	4m 46s
threaded - macos-latest - aarch64	4m 43s
mpi - windows-latest - x64	4m 36s
threaded - windows-latest - x64	4m 38s
finish	1s
	1h 52m 10s

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