roman_datamodels compatibility, move `romandeps` test to CI workflows #11131

Job	Run time
Code style checks	16s
PEP 517	28s
Security audit	17s
Python 3.11 with coverage checking, all deps, and remote data	32m 13s
OS X - Python 3.12	11m 39s
Windows - Python 3.10	25m 18s
Python 3.12 with latest dev versions of key dependencies, and remote data	29m 40s
Python 3.11 with stable versions of dependencies and Roman	16m 49s
Upload Coverage	7s
	1h 56m 47s

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