ci: faster cibuildwheel #214

Job	Run time
Build SDist	19s
37 on aarch64	25m 16s
* auto64 on macos-13	24m 43s
* auto64 on macos-14	10m 41s
38 on aarch64	22m 19s
cp* auto64 on windows-2019	13m 49s
39 on aarch64	22m 30s
pp* auto64 on windows-2019	9m 26s
310 on aarch64	22m 26s
* auto32 on windows-2019	13m 0s
311 on aarch64	22m 39s
manylinux auto64 on ubuntu-latest	22m 18s
312 on aarch64	22m 33s
musllinux auto64 on ubuntu-latest	17m 41s
Upload if release	0s
	4h 9m 40s

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