Bugfix: Only reorder NodeAggregateWasRemoved events if the node is not recreated afterwards

[mhsdesign]

Currently the Beta16 replay can fail see: https://neos-project.slack.com/archives/C050C8FEK/p1732527086489229

the core problem is outlined in #5363

See https://discuss.neos.io/t/neos-9-beta-16-release/6719/2?u=marc how to apply this patch ;)

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[kitsunet]

Tested, and works in the event stream that showed this error.

[mhsdesign]

Thanks. Well technically this might still be doomed if you delte a parent and then with the recursive deletion the same problem will occur. But i think its a good step forward and if there are other projections needing an even more sophisticated migration well do it then

[kitsunet]

I know, but it's better than before and was pretty fast, so lets have it for now.