Use zmq-anyio #2774

Job	Run time
check_release	1m 45s
link_check	3m 40s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	8m 42s
Make SDist	25s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	8m 41s
test_docs	51s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	1m 16s
Test Lint	1m 15s
Test Minimum Versions	43s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	2m 30s
Test Prereleases	2m 34s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	8m 44s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	5m 9s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	8m 41s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	6m 1s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	8m 45s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	8m 43s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	8m 42s
build (windows-latest, 3.10)	1m 59s
build (windows-latest, 3.11)	1m 49s
build (windows-latest, 3.12)	2m 31s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 14s
coverage	1s
tests_check	2s
	1h 35m 43s

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