feat: [Sc-63907] allow skipping scrollToIndex if row is already in view

[blambillotte]

• Example use case on the schedule where the scrollIntoView is helpful when moving a task to a date that is outside of the current viewport, but we don't want it to move if it's still visible after a given change. https://www.loom.com/share/a58929dc5354403f855628e60212c1e5
• This somewhat hand-rolled implementation is due to virutoso not exposing this option, some context on this thread where the preferred option is to use an intersection observer, but that seems like overkill given there may be 50+ rows rendered on a large screen Using overscan leads to incorrect rangeChanged indices petyosi/react-virtuoso#118