Add some Renovate groups and enable NVM updates

[steverep]

Proposed change

• Groups MDI bumps
• Groups and disables WDS bumps
• Enable automatic updating of .nvmrc (need to use code name to stay on latest LTS)

Type of change

• Dependency upgrade
• Bugfix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (thank you!)
• Breaking change (fix/feature causing existing functionality to break)
• Code quality improvements to existing code or addition of tests

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Checklist

• The code change is tested and works locally.
• There is no commented out code in this PR.
• Tests have been added to verify that the new code works.

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