build, ci: upgrade build and ci setups #105

Job	Run time
build	1m 39s
tests / Load tox environments	6s
tests / codestyle (ubuntu-latest)	15s
tests / py36-test (ubuntu-20.04)	40s
tests / py38-test (ubuntu-latest)	2m 21s
tests / py37-test (macos-13)	56s
tests / py310-test (macos-latest)	2m 1s
tests / py39-test (windows-latest)	5m 14s
tests / py38-notebooks (ubuntu-latest)	2m 30s
tests / py37-notebooks (macos-13)	1m 5s
tests / py39-notebooks (windows-latest)	4m 32s
visual-regression-tests	1m 27s
	22m 46s

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