build, ci: upgrade build and ci setups #96

Job	Run time
build	1m 56s
tests / Load tox environments	6s
tests / codestyle (ubuntu-latest)	34m 16s
tests / py36-test (ubuntu-20.04)	42s
tests / py38-test (ubuntu-latest)	51m 51s
tests / py311-test (ubuntu-latest)	18m 25s
tests / py37-test (macos-13)	3h 36m 34s
tests / py310-test (macos-latest)	3h 2m 58s
tests / py313-test (macos-latest)	2h 12m 54s
tests / py39-test (windows-latest)	25m 50s
tests / py312-test (windows-latest)	6h 0m 28s
tests / py38-notebooks (ubuntu-latest)	31m 7s
tests / py37-notebooks (macos-13)	2h 20m 42s
tests / py39-notebooks (windows-latest)	26m 4s
visual-regression-tests	41s
	20h 24m 34s

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