build, ci: upgrade build and ci setups #86

Job	Run time
build	24s
tests / Load tox environments	3s
tests / codestyle (ubuntu-latest)	15s
tests / py36-test (ubuntu-20.04)	25s
tests / py38-test (ubuntu-latest)	2m 29s
tests / py311-test (ubuntu-latest)	2m 26s
tests / py37-test (macos-13)	48s
tests / py310-test (macos-latest)	2m 8s
tests / py313-test (macos-latest)	1m 48s
tests / py39-test (windows-latest)	5m 54s
tests / py312-test (windows-latest)	5m 37s
tests / py38-notebooks (ubuntu-latest)	2m 42s
tests / py37-notebooks (macos-13)	43s
tests / py39-notebooks (windows-latest)	5m 41s
visual-regression-tests	0s
	31m 23s

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