Update configure scripts for local-aarch64-*-windows

[cocoa-xu]

Hi there, this is one of the smaller PRs seperated from the original PR #8142 that attempts to add initial support for ARM64 windows. In this PR,

• it will set the host_cpu, build_cpu or target_cpu to aarch64 when host, build or target matches local-aarch64-*-windows;
• it also checks if build_cpu = target_cpu when detecting if the user is cross-compiling.

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[garazdawi]

Thanks!