fix LAMMPS wheel with CUDA wheels

[njzjz]

It's annoying that in the CUDA Python wheels, the library filename is libcudart.so.11.0, instead of libcudart.so or libcudart.so.11 or libcudart.11.0.xxx. There are no symlinks in these CUDA Python wheels on PyPI. Thus, in this case, when DeePMD-kit tries to load libcudart.so, no file can be found.
Python interface doesn't have this issue, as it tries to use glob to find detailed library names. For the LAMMPS executable called from Python, LD_LIBRARY_PATH doesn't work with CUDA Python libraries (but works with an installation that contains symlinks). Thus, in this PR, LD_PRELOAD is set instead to preload CUDA symbols.
This fixes the docker images for the development branch.

[njzjz]

cc @Yi-FanLi

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