Feat: add `se_atten_v2`to PyTorch and DP #5669

Job	Run time
Build C library (2.15, libdeepmd_c.tar.gz)	7m 10s
Build C library (2.14, >=2.5.0rc0,<2.15, libdeepmd_c_cu11.tar.gz)	6m 32s
Test building from C library	1m 5s
Pass building c library	3s
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