improve gh actions (#3283) #5274

Job	Run time
determine-arm64-runner	1s
Build source distribution	25s
Build wheels for cp311-manylinux_x86_64	5m 31s
Build wheels for cp311-manylinux_x86_64	5m 39s
Build wheels for cp311-macosx_x86_64	6m 48s
Build wheels for cp311-macosx_arm64	3m 25s
Build wheels for cp311-win_amd64	5m 30s
Build wheels for cp310-manylinux_aarch64	4m 32s
build_pypi_index	9s
build_docker (12)	14m 15s
build_docker (_cu11, 11)	12m 12s
upload_pypi	0s
deploy_pypi_index	0s
Pass testing build wheels	3s
	58m 30s

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