Move model deviation and ase calculator to `deepmd_utils` #4593

Job	Run time
determine-arm64-runner	1s
Build source distribution	23s
Build wheels for cp311-manylinux_x86_64	5m 15s
Build wheels for cp311-manylinux_x86_64	5m 22s
Build wheels for cp311-macosx_x86_64	6m 20s
Build wheels for cp311-macosx_arm64	5m 27s
Build wheels for cp311-win_amd64	5m 55s
Build wheels for cp310-manylinux_aarch64	4m 27s
build_pypi_index	7s
build_docker (12)	2m 36s
build_docker (_cu11, 11)	2m 42s
upload_pypi	0s
deploy_pypi_index	0s
Pass testing build wheels	2s
	38m 37s

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