Throw exception for oversized cookies

[win36]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
When dealing with larger objects, putObject() cannot be used, because you need to render and size-check the cookie yourself.

Describe the solution you'd like
If a Cookie matching or exceeding 4K is detected when trying to write, an exception should be thrown.
To match all use cases, making this behavior a non-default cookie option might be a good idea.

Describe alternatives you've considered
So far you can work around this issue by not using putObject() and doing serialization and size checking manually.