Enable libcufile on linux_aarch64 (w/CUDA 12.2+)

[jakirkham]

As of CUDA 12.2, there are linux_aarch64 packages of libcufile* ( conda-forge/libcufile-feedstock#9 ). However they are not available for earlier versions. This was not enabled in the CUDA 12.2 update ( #672 ). Though we could add this after, but we would want to add a check to disable this for CUDA 12 or 11 before 12.2

[jakirkham]

Alternatively we could move to KvikIO ( #221 ) and adopt this once KvikIO adds this functionality ( rapidsai/kvikio#339 ). This would simplify things here