[feature request]Add endpoints webhook for node automony feature

[rambohe-ch]

What would you like to be added:
In the proposal: https://github.com/openyurtio/openyurt/blob/master/docs/proposals/20240929-enhancing-edge-autonomy.md#full-compatibility-of-edge-autonomy-capabilities-with-kubernetes

Endpoints resource should be intercepted by webhook in yurt-manager, and the endpoints settings should be reconstructed in terms of node autonomy configuration(node.openyurt.io/autonomy-duration).

this means pod is marked as not ready by native NodeLifeCycle controller, but pods will not be removed from endpoints if node autonomy duration is configured.

others
/kind feature

[tnsimon]

/assign @tnsimon