How to style selected (checkbox checked) row and column? and How can I disable row borders?

[Muhammad-Arsalan31]

Hi, I want to customize the styles of the selected row. and hide row borders. I want to do something like this

I also want to customize the select all checkbox styles.

this is minimal sandbox.
https://codesandbox.io/s/quizzical-fast-jvf3nm?file=/src/App.tsx