managing rolloutRestartTargets with dynamic/changing names

[ninjaDave333]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
each time we update a deployment or configmap its name is being updated, we add the update number to its name, for example:

rolloutRestartTargets:
  - kind: Deployment
    name: mydeploy-00014-deployment

this is making it impossible to add these deployments to the "rolloutRestartTargets"

Describe the solution you'd like
i would like to:

• have the option to add a wildcard to the name like: mydeploy-*-deployment
• have an alternate way to mark specific deployments/configmaps/etc for rollout somehow, mybe via tags or labels.

Describe alternatives you've considered
I understand that reloader can automatically trigger restarts/rollouts by watching labels.

Additional context
i would like to keep using the official Hashicorp operator, and cannot change my convention of deployment names.

thanks.