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<p>本来在春节的时候，需要学习一下复盘的思维。</p>
<p>然后，在开年一开始就碰到了一场大戏，突然感觉到了复盘的重要性。如果不进行复盘的话，很多事情就没有意识到问题，然后就滑向更可怕的深渊。</p>
<p>而且，其中提到的，复盘必须自己亲自来做，真是非常有必要。如果不是自己的亲身经历，很难感受到经历中的感受。</p>
<p>从外人来看的话，并没有深刻意识到问题吧，可能作为外人，觉得这次的事情非常大，但人家可能不觉得吧。</p>
<p>看起来，最后还是以单方面妥协暂时结束了，只能说看起来是。</p>
<p>联想一下自己的话，其实也是这样吧，真实的诉求或者说迷茫的想法，并没有办法说出来，最后只能是单方面的妥协，讨好。</p>
<p>联系上看过的热辣滚烫，确实自己也算是在关系中也是讨好型人格，苹果会全部都给掉，造成自己不喜欢吃苹果的假象。</p>
<p>挺羡慕的，可以见自己，可以勇敢地说出自己的想法和心情，勇敢地说出看心情吧。</p>
<p>其实这次，也算是见自己的一个很好的机会和方式，只不过最后还是没有赢一次</p>
<p>希望自己也能有这样一次机会，最后可以真诚地见自己</p>
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<p>赶在春节过完之前，对2023进行一个总结，也算是慢慢拣起重新写作的起点吧。</p>
<p>那就按照时间流水去回滚一下2023年的一些时刻，一些想法。</p>
<p>先来生活上的</p>
<p><strong>1月</strong></p>
<p>爷爷去世了，一个乡下的家没有了，在所谓的放开政策下，只能是痛苦地接受。才刚刚见过一面，短短几个月，就只能阴阳相隔。</p>
<p>不知道是不是已经习惯不流眼泪，在送别的时候，发现自己哭不出来，感情多么贫瘠，呵呵</p>
<p>最后只能是以一种喜丧的方式来宽慰自己，那自己呢？或许连花甲都不行吧，哈哈</p>
<p><strong>3月</strong></p>
<p>算是疫情后的第一次旅行吧，去了福州和厦门，还是觉得南方好，哈哈</p>
<p><strong>5月</strong></p>
<p>算是把拖了好几年的蜜月旅行给休了，大理-昆明，非常适合数字移民，自然条件太好了。去了三月三的中草药一条街走了一躺，也没有传说中一年包治百病，该感冒的时候还是感冒了，笑。</p>
<p><strong>7月</strong></p>
<p>第一次喂养野外野猫，还看清楚了自己的极限，不要过分地泛滥自己的爱心，不要过分地高估了自己的能力，不管是对自己还是对于她人，量力而行就好，</p>
<p><strong>10月</strong></p>
<p>开始进入她的失业的第一个月，终于去了趟长城-水长城</p>
<p><strong>11月</strong></p>
<p>终于去了趟雍和宫，烧香的年轻人真多，有点想了解一下佛教的教义，对于所谓小乘佛法的兴趣。</p>
<p>也在时隔多年之后，重新去了趟深圳，变化真大，开始跟广州接轨了</p>
<p><strong>12月</strong></p>
<p>终于看了一次升国旗，只不过，没找到比较好的位置，笑。也算是体验到了年轻人的快乐，人老心不老</p>
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<p>好吧，我来当恶人</p>
<p>如果当时态度坚决一些呢，可能就不会有现在这样的状况。当然了，人家觉得有能力和精力，那就承担地更多了。。。</p>
<p>无非是她谁次卧，我睡客厅罢了，没什么大不了</p>
<p>当引入外来者之后，才发现自己的精力和时间并没有完全铺在两只猫上，内心还是有些愧疚。同时，也大约触碰到了自己的极限，两只猫，给予力所能及的陪伴，也就是自己的极限了，不想再切割出去了</p>
<p>提了建议，最后又决定不了，然后后面提意见，就变成了抱怨，提了建议，又变成了让她决策让她执行，行吧，以后还是不提了，反正你都是对的就行了</p>
<p>还是缓慢地做好自己就行了，也让自己接受了坚定不让某件事情发生，做好自己该做的，能做的就行了，其他的也管不了</p>
<p>确实在送回去之后，感到了后悔，尤其是重新找到了咪咪，心中算是如释重负</p>
<p>不过，对于是否领养回去，反而更加坚定，因为，家里的猫属实一个星期都没人照看，心中的愧疚更甚</p>
<p>是，咪咪确实会遇到各种各样的问题，但是，把它领回去，是否是对于其他两只的不公平？不想因为领养而放弃一些应该要做到的事情，它是家人，并不是仅供养育的宠物，尊重它的独立性和个性，给予你应该要做到的爱护</p>
<p>珍惜自己已有的，做好自己可以力所能及的事情就可以了</p>
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