Windows nuget missing a library it requires ?

[credzba]

I spent the day learning more than I ever wanted to know about gircore, but finally it comes down to this.
Gtk-4.0.gir (and 2 others) have a specification for shared-library = "libgtk-4-1.dll"
The nuget package provides :
/.nuget/packages/gircore.gtk-4.0/0.5.0/lib
➜ lib ls /.dll
net6.0/Gtk-4.0.dll net7.0/Gtk-4.0.dll net8.0/Gtk-4.0.dll

so, it wont work unless you install gtk4.0 somewhere else that has a gtk-4-1.dll.
msys2 does that, so I installed it, and copied ALL the dlls into my execution directory.. nope I dunno why, I am tired of this game.
add the /c/msys64/clang64/bin/ path to my PATH and it executes.

What's really sad is I used the Modules in dev studio to see what modules are in use, and it ONLY uses this libgtk-4-1 to initialize the Application, after that it seems the dlls shipped with nuget are sufficient.

so, just change that shared-library to gtk-4.0.dll and THAT will fix it right?
Noooo, now I get The type initializer for GtkApplication threw an exception. Unable to find an entry point named gtk_init in DLL Gtk.
The phrasing of that exception is odd because it abbreviates Gtk4... so maybe I could change something else in the generator to make the 4.0 Gtk dll work, but it's massive, and I have no clue how its supposed to work.

If anyone has a clue how this is working for everybody else, please point out how I am an idiot, and I will be thankful to you.