fix: non-reference clone of transferred listeners

[mshanemc]

What does this PR do?

scenario:

1. you build a plugin with an "early" hook (think init or prerun) which instantiates lifecycle and subscribes a listener with an uniqueId.
2. your plugin uses an older version of this library than the CLI it's installed into
3. when the "main" CLI loads Lifecycle, it tries to transfer the listeners.
4. the map of unique listeners is passed in to the new Lifecycle and deleted from the old one
5. because it was passed by ref, the delete of listeners from the old Lifecycle also deletes them from the new one
6. non-unique listeners were protected from ref-mutation bug by the spread operator (see existing code comment)

This PR adds a cloning step for the map of unique listeners and some UT to verify ref-breaking

the native structuredClone can't be used because the callback value in the maps is a function and can't be cloneable.

What issues does this PR fix or reference?

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[git2gus]

This issue has been linked to a new work item: W-15959518